Dear Woman, Your Power Lies Within You

Dear Woman, Your Power Lies Within You.

If you are still shortchanging yourself by playing the victim card, seeking who will take up your responsibilities, and that of your ancestors, you have simply signed a contract with life not to live up to your potentials. 

You need not be reminded, the ultimate loser will be you.
“What will people say?” 
“The society will say this or that.”

There are many things they will say and impose on you. It behooves on you to choose the option that fits best and measure up to your expected best life.

Who are you, dear woman?  
Who do you expect to give meaning to your identity?
Are you waiting for the next manipulator?
Why are you waiting for that person who wants to drag you into her own pit of despondency because she doesn’t want to suffer alone in her pain?

There are many things they will say and impose on you. It behooves on you to choose the option that fits best and measure up to your expected best life.

When you cower due to intimidation, you are simply telling us you have no grounds for negotiation.

You simply have no power.
Histrionics won’t save you.
Realities of life won’t spare you.

Are you really bereft of power?

While efforts are being made to meet up with certain aspects of societal life, the men are equally not static. Many who know their onions are scaling up.

That’s why you need to scale up too.
Rise up and take the stage. 
No one can do it as well as you do.

©2020 Bethany Blaze.